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From music notes to love notes: Dr. Chi is engaged!

Life has a way of bringing people back into one anotherโ€™s lives at the most unexpected times.

Nearly 30 years ago, Shawn was beginning his career as a band director, and Phoebe was one of the many students who passed through his junior high music program. At the time, their connection was simply that of a teacher and student brought together by music. Neither could have imagined that, decades later and after living entirely separate lives, their paths would cross again under profoundly different circumstances.

Over the years, they each followed their own calling, experienced lifeโ€™s joys and challenges, and grew into the people they were meant to become. When they reconnected as adults nearly three decades later, they approached one another not as the people they had once been, but as two individuals meeting again in a completely new season of life.

What began as a renewed acquaintance gradually developed into a meaningful relationship rooted in trust, shared values, mutual respect, and a love for God that continues to guide their path.

A love rooted in faith

Theirs is not a story defined by grand gestures or cinematic turns. It is found in long conversations, shared laughter, quiet companionship, and unwavering support. Their love is steady, intentional, and grounded.

From the beginning, their relationship has been built on more than affection. It has been anchored in faith. That foundation has carried them through seasons of growth and change, drawing them closer to one another and to the future they are now building together

The proposal

Thirty years later, and this melody finally found its harmony.

When the proposal came, it was quiet, sincere, and deeply meaningful. There was no spotlight and no spectacle. It was simply the two of them sharing a private moment and making a deeply personal promise.

Shawn asked Phoebe to spend the rest of her life with him. Even before the words were spoken, her heart already knew its answer.

He placed in her hands a ring he had lovingly designed: a three-stone engagement ring representing their past, present, and future. At its center was a breathtaking 5-carat princess-cut diamond, chosen not only for its brilliance but also for what it represents: clarity, strength, and the enduring beauty of a love that developed in its proper season.

Walking forward together

She said yes.

Music was part of the distant beginning of their story, but love came much later. After decades of separate lives, they found one another again as adults and discovered that their renewed connection held the possibility of something lasting.

They may not know everything the future holds, but they are walking toward it together, hand in hand, grateful for every unexpected turn in their story and trusting in the One who brought their paths together again.

Shawn & Phoebe

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