Medicine

When We Simply Stop Caring.

I see it all around me.

Burnout. To be burnt.

When we simplyย stop caring.

Most ofย the time weย don’tย even need
to say anything.
Butย you know.
You hear it in ourย voice.
You see it in ourย eyes.
And you feel it too.
You know what
is going through our
mindย with each wayward glance.

Isย this whatย I signed up for?
Is this all this profession hasย to offer?ย 

Becauseย I haveย seenย the articles.
To prevent physician burnout.
The A-B-C’s.
Changes we must make.
Limiting expectations.ย 
Self-empowerment.
Decreased hours.ย 
Putting usย first.

I too used to be desperate.

What isย happeningย to me?
What is happening to my colleagues?

Whatย isย happeningย to medicine?

Butย then one day,ย I saw you.

You.

Not you the patient.
You the person.
You’re just
a person.
You are me.
And you are hurting.
And maybe I am too, although
youย mayย never know.

So I thank you for being here.

Not only do I wantย youย to knowย that
I honor the privilegeย ofย being able to
helpย you,ย but you should knowย that
youย have in yourย own way
takenย careย of me.

And I do care for you.

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โ—Š A Physician’sย Pleaย โ—Š

23 replies »

  1. I love your poem and I feel that as patients, we can often be clueless about the fact that often our doctors are experiencing burnout! I have a feeling that sometimes my Internist might be. She is a fabulous doctor, but sometimes I feel more rushed than I know I should feel.

    On the other hand, my Urologist is a complete Angel! Even the staff at hospitals and other patients I have met of his, EVERYONE that meets him adores him. I have a congenital condition (medullary sponge kidneys, where I have 100s of stones all day every day and they aren’t going to go away), yesterday was my normal exam and the timing couldn’t have been better because I was having some “stone action” My doctor shows me respect that I KNOW my condition because I have been living with it for 20 yrs now (I had it since I was born but it didn’t flare up til I was 40)….and he is ALWAYS, ALWAYS sympathetic and caring. I adore him. He almost makes me wish I would have a flare up (almost!!) because then I get to see him lol!!!! catchatwithcarenandcody

    • WOW! It makes me so happy to hear this! I am comforted to hear that you feel well taken care of, and I believe that your physician also treasures this rapport he has with you. He sounds like a wonderful person and caregiver. It always warms my heart to hear about people having such good relationships with their physicians. ๐Ÿ™‚ ๐Ÿ™‚

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